Tuesday, September 9, 2014

Superstars

Fair warning, this post might come off as a little braggy. But that’s what happens when you have the best kids in the world. So if that sort of thing bothers you maybe you should read something else.

The first few weeks of school have gone amazingly well. Lix and the kids are settling into a morning routine that seems to be working well enough. Jenna has been really tearing it up in kinder. Every day she comes home and tells us about the things that she did, and usually about the kids who may have misbehaved. She reports that some kids get sleepy and lay down when they are supposed to be paying attention, and others have to be uninvited from an activity because they weren’t doing what they were supposed to, but that she is always a good listener and does what the teacher says. She has a special class every day, which rotates between PE, art, and music, and she loves those. Last week was pretty special because it was grandparents lunch, and since Alixa’s mom is playing in Florida we had Jarom’s mom fly in to attend. That meant a nice lunch at the school on Friday, but it also meant some nice trips with grandma to various stores to get fun toys and soccer gear. It also meant that she was able to watch both Bo and Jenna play some soccer, which was lots of fun for them. Sadly, it was a very short stay in Texas, but we were glad she could make it.


At the end of the week Jenna brought home a buddy, Ollie Owl. He’s a stuffed owl that gets to go home with the best listener in class during the week, and Jenna got to be the first person to take him home. He gets to spend all weekend with you and you write a journal entry about his adventures. When Jarom heard about this he asked Jenna to tell him about Ollie. “Well,” said Jenna, “he needs lots of love and affection. He likes to go places with you, but you have to be careful and not leave him anywhere because he will get scared if he is all by himself.” It sounded like she was reading it from a cue card, and could not have been more hilarious. Jenna is quite the little nerd. She is very smart and seems to be an excellent student. I think she gets it from her mother.



Bo also started school and seems to have instantly aged 2 years. It has always been a struggle to get Bo to do things on his own, whether that means putting on his shoes or buckling his seat belt or helping him eat. He can do all of those things, but sometimes it seems like he is a little too comfortable in his role of little brother. But with Jenna gone now Bo is all big brother. He has been taking great care of Emmy, and on the morning of his first day of school he was so excited that he put his shoes on and climbed in the car and buckled himself in. He gets to do science experiments and crafts and games and has a few good friends in his class and has the greatest teacher we know. He’s been doing really well.




Soccer has also started for both Jenna and Bo and they had their first games this weekend. They had both been doing really well in practice so we were cautiously optimistic that they would have the chance to score a goal or two. Bo had his game first, and it was early enough that Grandma got to watch before she caught her flight out of town. He was amazing. He chased down every ball, played great defense, and scored 4 goals. And he couldn’t have been happier running around the field chasing that ball. In the afternoon game Jenna told Jarom that since Bo scored 4 goals she was going to score 5 to beat him. Jarom just smiled at her. But sure enough, the girl who didn’t score a goal until halfway through the season last spring lit it up for 5 goals. Way to go little kiddos.



Monday, September 1, 2014

1 week down, 519 to go

This week was a pretty big deal for the Winns. Jarom has been calling Alixa 30 for a while now, even though she doesn’t actually turn 30 until February. But nothing makes you feel old like sending your kids off to school. So last Monday Jarom took a work from home day so he could make the long walk to Rogers Elementary with Lix, Emmy, and Bo. He wasn’t worried about Jenna. No, Jenna was always going to be just fine. She was going to run into her class and meet new friends and do assignments and projects and learn things and mutter under her breath at the other kids that weren’t doing the things they were supposed to. Jarom never had any concerns about how little Jenna would handle her big transition.

 Waving bye to mom on Day 1
Alixa, on the other hand, she was going to have a tough day. There had been some tears in the days and weeks leading up to this as they went through school shopping and meet the teacher and all that jazz. But I guess there just isn’t anything that can prepare a momma bear to let go. She did an amazing job with all the logistics, making lunches and snacks for Jarom and Jenna, prepping the backpack and making sure she had all the needed stuff, laying out clothes the night before and figuring out a good morning routine to help Jenna be ready to go on time. She had to figure out the best way to take Bo and Emmy with her every morning, and she has done great. But it makes her sad to let Jenna go every morning, and the fact that Jenna is making the transition as easily as she is probably makes it worse. Would it kill a child to just once be unable to leave their mother?! That’s really all they want.




So the daily routine is getting some serious shakeups. The morning starts earlier, which nobody is really a fan of. After Jenna is off to school Lix takes the other kids to the gym, comes home for Emmy’s nap and plays with Bo, which he thinks is awesome. Starting this week Bo will have his own school a few days a week, and he is pretty stoked about that. Around 3 they head back over to retrieve Jenna and walk home, trying not to evaporate in the 100 degree heat. Every day Jenna has to tell Mom 3 things about her school day.

 Bo and his preschool teacher
I also got in on the school action by volunteering to be a guest speaker at reptile day with a bunch of church kids. It was fun to have a field trip and everyone was pretty excited to meet me. They were all quite brave and got to hold me and have their picture taken with me.





Jarom has spent most of his recent free time smashing things in the master bathroom. Alixa has been requesting new tile on the floor and in the shower for a long time, and she finally got her way. So the demo is afoot. Demolition is one of those things that is fun in theory, and is pretty cool to do for about 2 minutes, but then the exhilaration of smashing stuff starts to wear off and your back starts to hurt and you start developing blisters on your hands and you remember why you went to college and got a degree so you could sit in an office and type on a keyboard. Much of the previous stuff is gone, so now the fun part can get started. Hopefully it won’t be too long before it is all finished and we have lots of gorgeous pictures to post here. Happy Labor Day!